At The Table
“A single conversation across the table with a wise man is better than ten years mere study of books.”
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
It’s just a simple wooden table. But it took me several months of searching to find it. Living in a small beach house prior to moving to NC, I didn’t have room for a dining room table. But now I do. And so I looked for the largest table my dining room can accommodate. There are no leaves in my new table; it’s just one long piece of naturally finished acacia wood, resting on its black metal frame, patiently waiting for each one of its ten seats to become occupied.
Embracing the anticipation of its delivery, I gaze at the now empty space which will soon become the center of organic conversation. I envision all the meals and activities that will be shared around this table as we celebrate life’s joys and sorrows with laughter and tears. I pray this will become a place where we can collectively grapple with the harsh realities of life and leave with hearts filled with hope for a better tomorrow.
Uncomplicated decorations will include a long runner that stretches down the middle and a simple floral centerpiece flanked by two candlesticks with white tapers. The emphasis here will be on people, not on the presentation.
The wood itself is warm and welcoming, reaching out to draw others into its vast yet intimate space. I long for this to become a table around which our guests feel seen, heard, and valued; where they can find nourishment for their souls as well as their bodies. The words, “Tell me more” will be spoken frequently as we create opportunities for the Holy to do the transformational work only He can do.
“There are no strangers here; only friends you have not met yet.” William Butler Yeats
A safe place where new and old friends alike can share their hearts and tell their stories, everyone will be invited. As diverse as the natural grain coursing through its depth and breadth, every heart matters at the table. To those with broken hearts, you are welcome here. You belong. To those with differing opinions and perspectives, you are welcome here. You belong. To those who are weary and worn out with life in general, you are welcome here. You belong.
Perhaps broken relationships will be restored when grace is freely given and we hear words such as “I forgive you,” “I appreciate you,” and “I love you.” Anything is possible at the table.
What About You?
Where is your favorite gathering place in your home?
Describe what makes it so special.
Life is full and busy for most of us. If you’re not able to host a group of people yourself, what value do you see in attending such a gathering in someone’s else’s home?
May we all learn how to love others better in our Sunset Season. What does this look like to you?
